Many of my friends have often asked how I am able to earn the grades I want every semester and make it look extremely easy. I am flattered that others look to me for help with their own grades, but I should point out that it isn’t easy for me either. For the past three semesters at Northern Illinois University, I spent countless hours studying and completing assignments with precision and dedication. In retrospect, I feel confident in outlining the three things that really cause me to realize my potential and experience the results I want.
It may come as a surprise, but the only three words that really motivate me and cause me to push ahead are:
- Goals
- Perseverance
- Sacrifice
I am sure that many people in your life have told you the importance of making goals. Goals serve purely as an end-point which you can use as a benchmark to measure your progress. Without goals, we are aimlessly moving about our life and cannot measure our progress. In fact, I strongly believe that you, like every human, already have set your own goals whether you realize it or not. Hence, all you have to do now is simply identify your goals and measure success. The process of identifying goals or how to develop goals will be left to other sites and maybe a later post. But I cannot stress to you how important it is to have goals and how I use these goals to measure my own progress.
Once I know what my goals are, I work hard to ensure that I reach them. I respect commitments and deadlines and do not tolerate incompetence or laziness. I admit that there numerous times throughout a semester when I am lazy, however, regardless of what happens, I always make sure that I finish the task by the time it is due. This ties into my next point, which is sacrifice.
Sacrifice is another key component that has helped me to realize my own success. Sacrifice encompasses giving up those things or persons that hinder or impede your progress. Some will argue that sacrifice is a harsh term or is unnecessary. However, when I set out to accomplish a goal, my only concern is to accomplish that goal. If that means I have to not attend any parties, help friends out, or even blog, then I will do just that. To me, if I cannot accomplish a goal, then I have not realized my success and must set out to analyze what went wrong. It becomes pertinent to me to avoid the hassles of figuring out why I could not accomplish a goal. Therefore, I will sacrifice whatever is necessary to accomplish my goals. Do not mistake my tendency to sacrifice with inattentiveness to the other essential parts of life. Occasionally, some goals are just not worth the price and therefore not worth accomplishing. But if that is the case, then there must be another way to go ahead and accomplish it with a much lower price tag.
The moral is that success is not easy. It takes time and it takes effort. I know many people out there who do not understand the true concept of success. They are unable to or are unwilling to do what is necessary to realize success.